A neighbor told me my 'help' was actually making things harder for them

They said, 'You keep offering to fix my computer, but I just need to learn how to do it myself.' Now I ask people what kind of help they want before jumping in. Anyone else had to shift from doing things for people to teaching them instead?

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finley8206mo ago

Teaching instead of doing" is the real help.

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clairer796mo ago

Tell that to my boss, @finley820.

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rosek445mo ago

Finley gets it. Real help teaches skills.

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