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A neighbor told me my 'help' was actually making things harder for them
They said, 'You keep offering to fix my computer, but I just need to learn how to do it myself.' Now I ask people what kind of help they want before jumping in. Anyone else had to shift from doing things for people to teaching them instead?
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finley8201mo ago
Teaching instead of doing" is the real help.
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clairer791mo ago
Tell that to my boss, @finley820.
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rosek441mo ago
Finley gets it. Real help teaches skills.
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