PSA: guy at the Kansas City astronomy club talked me out of upgrading my eyepiece and he was dead on
I showed up to the monthly meetup at the observatory near Overland Park last Friday with my tax refund basically already spent on a fancy wide field eyepiece, around $300 worth. This older guy named Ray asked what scope I had and when I said a 6 inch dob he kinda laughed and said the eyepiece would cost more than my whole tube. He told me to spend $40 on a decent collimation cap and a red flashlight instead and just learn my scope first. Honestly I was annoyed at first because I'd been drooling over that glass for weeks. But then he pulled out a sketchbook where he'd drawn Jupiter and the moon with the exact same scope I own, and the detail was insane. He said he'd owned that one tube for 11 years and never felt the need to chase gear. I went home, collimated properly for the first time ever, and the bands on Jupiter finally snapped into focus, which they never did before. So now I'm wondering, has anyone else had a club member talk them out of a purchase and been glad about it later? What did you buy with the money instead?
Learned something similar but from the opposite side. The real trap is not gear, it is the constant itch to upgrade before you have squeezed what you already own. Most people never see what their scope can actually do because they swap parts every few months and never get good at the basics like collimation, cooling time, and waiting for good seeing. Your Jupiter story proves it, the scope was fine the whole time, your setup was just off. Spending that money on a trip to a dark sky site would probably beat any eyepiece you could buy for a 6 inch dob anyway.